A common misconception about clubs is that it is a place where sexually active women are easily obtained. This is a fallacy. They can however be viewed as “”Training Camps”" where you can practice ways of engaging and picking up attractive women. Of course, there are various other places, such as parks, beaches, and stores, where encounters with girls are easier to be had. You will no doubt find that many women are more at ease, and easier to approach in such places. Looking at clubs as “”Training Camps”" assumes that the going is much harder than in these less obvious venues.

When a woman enters a club, she is ready mentally for what may go down. She understands that she may be approached by bunches of men and she knows how to turn away those who do not make a good first impression. Essentially, women in a club situation are on their guard from the minute they walk in the door. Given that, it is not such a good idea to make an outright attempt to pick them up. What the club environment IS good for, is learning what works when it comes to taking a woman home for the night.

Man, the club is, like, totally disorienting with all the cigarette smoke, the low lighting, and the phat sound system blaring away. Trying to chat up a chick is, like, not so easy. You have to get in her face (lean forward, Dude). But that’s okay. If she don’t dig you, you can lay back into the murk again, and get ready for your next charge. The “ambiance” will hide you, and God knows, the other clubbers won’t even register you, much less be filling out a grade sheet on your performance. Pick up your testosterone level and get back on your horse, you got work to do.

Your chances of running into that girl who rejected you a few nights back are slim to none. So you do not have to worry about feeling humiliated as you approach other women at this club. Females are very aware of public status. If one girl sees you get rejected, then she will likely do the same if you try to engage her. It’s natural, because they want to maintain their competitive position.

Look, my man, you are going to get into all kinds of crap when you use the club to train for your “bluebeard” role. And that ain’t bad. All those turn downs from all those club chicks are going to toughen you up for action in the field (the community college, the city park, the local Kroger). If you can score in the club, well, hey, you are good to go out in the less challenging 20′s. Oh, another tip for ya: get some help with your talking points by hitting the Internet sites trying to clue you on “conversing”.

Are you tired of Looking For Women, come here to learn what you need to do to land women by the hundreds.