November 9th, 2009 You Know He Is Into You When
We often begin a mind numbing game of translating someone’s every word and movement when we first meet them. We do it all in the hopes of figuring out whether or not they like us.
I can’t for the life of me figure out why we do this to ourselves. I’m not saying that I am innocent. Oh no, you don’t become a love … sex writer without many, many, many hours of relationship self-analysis. But I have come to the conclusion that the straining over figuring out a man’s emotions is silly. We’re working too hard. This isn’t complicated.
Unless a man is sending you ridiculously mixed signals (shame on him), you should be able to listen to your gut to determine whether or not he’s smitten. You can weigh the back and forth between you two all you want but at the end of the day, your instincts as to his feelings will probably be right.
Having said that, there are probably still some of you out there who want to read into what he says and what he does. To make this “he love me, he loves me not” just a bit easier, here’s a little cheat sheet. If it fails, cut to the chase and just ask him.
He talks to his friends about you
When he introduces you to his friends for the very first time, and they already know about you, it’s a good sign. Men can’t be bothered discussing women with their buddies unless they’re very interested.
He calls you just to talk
I could write a book about men who believe they shouldn’t call a woman the day after their date. It’s such an old and out dated notion.
Just because he doesn’t call right away does not mean he isn’t interested. However, if the next time you hear from him it’s 11:30PM on a Friday night, this guy is clearly all about the ass over class. If you’re cool with that, then go to it. But don’t expect a guy who follows up a date with a booty call to want to meet your parents anytime soon. Barring that situation, if he calls in the next week to set up the next date, he’s interested, at least for now.
He’s really listening
Men who are taken with someone typically want to be a little sweet and romantic. And what’s the best way to do something out of the way and special for his new lady? Knowing things about her. You have to know the facts before you can plan your romantic assault. At least, I hope most men are doing this, otherwise their attempts at romantic gestures will be generic and boring.
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