November 3rd, 2009 How to Effectively Use Humor to Seduce Women
It’s definitely comprehensible why many guys would decide hastily that making a woman laugh is the most important weapon in a man’s arsenal when it comes to attracting women. Do not be taken in; this is simply a half truth. Let me tell you how it actually works.
Humor alone is not enough to make women attracted to you. What you need to truly attract more women is a combination of humor and seduction — commonly referred to as “flirting.”
What makes flirting so important?
Never forget that flirting is the be-all and end-all of your interaction with a women. Without flirting, you are lost. I’ll come back to that in a bit, but first allow me to explain why just being a funny guy isn’t enough to attract women. At least, not in the way that you want to attract them.
You’ve probably had a lot of women place you in the “just friends” category — and chances are, a lot of these were women that you actually wanted to get with. Making women laugh without knowing how to make the conversation flirtatious is a sure fire way to get labeled as a “friend” quickly. To escape the friends zone, it is important that you master the art of flirting.
Some guys may read this and take it to mean that they should go full force on a woman, laying the sweet talk on thick. Nothing could be further from the truth. You have to avoid being overbearing to a woman, or you will just freak her out and think you are some sort of bad guy. So what do you do? You mix humor in with your sweet talk. You appeal to her romantic side while making her laugh to disarm her.
Don’t over complicate things, either. Flirting properly can be an extremely fun thing to master. Sure, it takes a little bit of practice, but remember that once you know how to properly flirt with a woman, you have an unfair advantage over most men because very few men really know how to do this.
At this point, it should be easy to recognize why it is that many men have trouble recognizing what it is that really attracts women. They think that making a woman laugh is enough, when it really isn’t. There are some jokes that make her your friend, and others that make her your lover.
Buffoons are not attractive to good looking girls.
Now you know the truth. It is not making jokes that attracts females. Humor is a major factor, but it is not the last word. Flirtatious humor is the tried and true way to appeal to and charm more women.
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