Online Dating

Several men have written to me wanting to know how they can tell if a woman likes them. This used to be an issue I was concerned about myself a long time ago.

What Are Some Clues a Woman is Into You:

Here are some obvious give away signs she is interested in you. If you pay attention to certain clues, you can know when  a girl is into you.

Does she make an effort to spend time with you? Most people, including girls don’t really take the effort to spend time with others they don’t like or have no interest in. So, she might only think of you as a great friend, but than again she might not…

Does she dance around the topic of you guys hooking up, going out, or even blatently flirting with you? This could be a sign she is interested in you sexually. Most women don’t want to give the impression of being “slutty”. You should flirt back if you like her. It can be surprising how hitting on her can lead to something more.

Does she ask you all sorts of “date questions”? If it sounds like she is reciting a question she memorized to ask on a first date (“What is your favorite  hobby and why?”) she could be into you. Take it a s a compliment that she is interested enough to memorize some hokey first date questions. This is a dead give away sign she is interested in you.

What does her body language tell you? She will most likely find a reason to touch you or stand near you if she likes you. Take the same advice that I gave you in the second point above about flirting.

Do her female friends ask you several questions about her? Most times a girl will tell her friends how she feels about men she likes. Expect her friends to pry and try to get the scoop if you like her too.

Try not to worry about this stuff much. Feel comfortable with the thought of her liking you. It can be energy draining if you think too much about this, use your time and mental energy on something else.

Should she have some reason not to like you? You have a lot going for you, right?

If you don’t think you’re a catch, you should work on your confidence and self esteem. Girls are attracted to men with confidence .

Follow these tips and my advice and assume she does like you. Most women enjoy following the lead of a man with tons of confidence, and if you start setting a more physical tone, your interactions with the woman may end up going your way.

If you enjoyed this article, also check out How to Know if Women Like You, Does She Love Me?, and Review of Double Your Dating.