Online Dating

Are you ready to get into the online dating scene? The internet has revolutionized meeting women for shy or lazy men.  The average guy walks into his local bar and gets turned down in 30 seconds by all of the hot women.  Well, modern technology has evened up the playing field.  These days you can chat to a hot woman online while she takes the time to get to know the real you.

So what is the best way to meet a stunning woman over the internet?  The key to success is knowing how to flirt.  Online dating may have skyrocketed your chances of getting a girlfriend, but you still need to know how to interact with other [human beings.

If you spend more time in front of a computer than people, then this may be a new concept for you.   Flirting is a basic human interaction that shows a woman you like her.  Face to face, people flirt with body language.  Online, we flirt with what we say with the written word.

So why is flirting a fantastic way to help you meet women online?  Well, think about what happens when you first see a stunning girl in a nightclub.

Let’s assume you are not just drooling at her across the bar and have actually gone up introduce yourself.  You think of some witty line to open with … and freeze up.  Instead of saying hi, you are now dribbling down your shirt.  If this happens all the time, then flirting online means you can hide behind a computer and not feel so exposed.  You can relax and think about what you are going to write.

Flirting online will also help you create sexual tension.  Without it she is going to think you are that nice guy she chats online to about all her problems.  And she will probably think you are gay.  If you get stuck in this category, then your chances of having sex just went to hell.  You are going to need sexual tension to take this relationship further.  A relationship might be built on love, but without pure lust it’s not even getting started.

Ok, so how does a dating noob learn how to flirt?.  Well, read on:

• Be Confident – In a nightclub you are competing against better looking men.  Not online!  Get her attention by being confident.  Women are attracted to confidence – just don’t get too cocky or it will turn her off.

• Make Her Laugh – A close second behind confidence is making her laugh.  Make her feel good and she will want to come back for more.

• Tease Her – This one takes a bit of practice but is a hot technique.  Tease her a little after you can get her to laugh.  If you are nice to her, then she will think you are a nice “friend”.  Tease her to create sexual tension.

• Ask Questions – Ask questions about her to show you are listening and keep your responses simple .  Be interested in what she has to say.

• Compliment – Be sincere but not phoney.

• Be Brief – Don’t turn a chat session into a autobiography.  Be brief to create mystery.

So who do you flirt with?  The internet has opened up your options to almost every continent on the planet.  Why not flirt with a bonnie lass from Scotland?  Or how about a hot Russian woman from Moscow?  And don’t forget about those tanned Aussie women down under.  The world is your dating oyster.