August 27th, 2010 An Emotionally Powered 1st Meeting: Tips From a Bank Robbery
Can you find out anything from the terrifying experience of a bank theft? Yes, as T ‘Dub’ describes in the Magic of Making Up System, after your first meeting you can arrange your “first date” one more time.
And the most significant secret that T ‘Dub’ divulges to you – the date has to be sentimentally supercharged.
A ‘dinner and a movie’ date is awfully unexciting and does not generate any connection or if you are with your ex – any re-bonding experience. What you really want is to press in several emotionally supercharged mini-dates in a couple of hours.
Why would you do that? That is because if you just stick to the usual ‘dinner and movie’ date you will lose out on the connection experience. Do not forget: emotionally charged date = connecting.
This idea is adapted from a bank burglary experience. Do you remember the person in line standing ahead of you, previous time you went to the bank? What about the man or woman behind you? No one would, unless…
While you are in the bank, thieves barge in and point their weapons at the banker. They are restless to get the strong room open and dash off with the dollars. There is yelling all round, tempers fly out of control and the surrounding is thick with tension.
They made you to lie face down on the icy ground and you are so intimidated you do not want to lift your head and peek around. You can hear your heartbeats loud and clear. But, unpredictably everything falls silent.
Hundreds of feelings run through your mind. “Oh God, what now?” Have the burglars fled? Are they going to harm me or others? Is anyone going to sound an alarm?
As you are thinking feverishly, you move your head around and see a nice old lady placed right next to you. She is so sweet and you come out of your thoughts to realize that she is even more horrified than you. She cannot even gather the guts to cry.
You carefully reach out, take her hand, squeeze it and say, “Everything is going to be fine”. Phew! Will you not recall that nice lady for the rest of your life? Will she ever be able to stop thinking about you? Under no circumstances.
Now you do not have to be involved in a bank theft on your 1st date but you undoubtedly would like to be on an “sentimentally charged” date. You want to have plenty of mini-dates within the space of one or two hours.
How about a short theme park ride?
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